The rockstar lifestyle comes standard at the Standard
Forget pillow menus and fresh-baked cookies. What draws guests to the LA Downtown Standard is the hotel’s ability to transform an ordinary businessman into the frontman of an indie rock band.
A seat at the rooftop bar puts guests in the midst of what feels like an exclusive industry party. Starlet-wannabes in knee socks serve cocktails to the pretty people lounging on vibrating waterbed pods next to the infinity pool. Edgy movies project against the building next door. And everyone is scanning the crowd for star-power.
On a visit to LA, guests eschew their normal choice of Westin or Marriott for a place that, just for a night, helps them crank their personality up to 11. Of course, none of this happens by chance. Hotel designers know exactly what effect they’re creating, right down to the vomiting stick-figure illustrations decorating guestroom trash cans.
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Redefining beauty is a daily routine
For Elisha, 22, her morning beauty routine is an opportunity to define herself for the day. Surrounded by a myriad of products and potions, she can decide on a whim to straighten her hair, wear it wavy or add product to mimic perfect bed-head. By wearing different scents or switching lipsticks, Elisha has no shortage of options. For her, this morning ritual lets her make a variety of small choices about who she wants to be that day.
Transitional identities reside in Second Life
Virtual world pixie robot or stay-at-home mom? Second Life makes it possible to be both. Not content to accept the limiting perceptions others have of her in daily life, Hungarian mother Franciska chooses to express her wilder side in a unique environment where reality is loosely defined.
And while her own avatar closely resembles her true self, many people push their alternate identities to more extreme levels. Opposite genders. Mythical creatures. Some even take the form of their own dream partner.
Through Second Life, Franciska has been able to nurture deep relationships across the globe, even going so far as to vacation in the “real world” with fellow Second Life residents. She says she prefers these friendships because they allow her to engage as the person she believes herself to be rather than the one society assumes she is.
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Growing into your looks
Walking away from a high-powered job to travel the world says something about a person. So does sporting a moustache. When Michael left Austin to indulge his wanderlust, he soon decided to forgo the razor and shaving cream. When he came back, instead of cleaning up and returning to his former life, he decided to keep his facial hair as an expression of the new person he’d become. His original beard was groomed into various goatees, moustaches, and soul patches as he tried out different ways of being.
Gen Y manipulates identity across age and ethnicity
Time travel and teleportation are typical themes in science fiction, but now Gen Y is pushing these boundaries in their daily lives. Caucasian Carrie celebrates Mexican culture in her home and loves retro video games that were high-tech before she was born. And while we all go through processes of identity formation when we’re young, with today’s wider array of options, it’s possible to play with a variety of cultures across the globe and throughout time.
Imaginary friends are no match for the virtual kind
When kids can lead alternative lives online, who needs imaginary friends? New York Times author, Michelle Slatalla recently wrote an article about her 10-year-old daughter’s assortment of virtual playrooms. Club Penguin. Planet Cazmo. Dizzyworld. In the first half of 2008, there were over 100 virtual worlds for tweens. Slatalla’s daughter plays online Scrabble and tells opponents she is a French single mother of twins (Jacques and Pierre) who has moved to the States to improve her English.
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tee
November 16, 2009
‘Any other thoughts on what influences readiness to engage to identity play? ‘...perhaps the amount of alcohol consumed??
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Suzanne Gibbs Howard
November 17, 2009
hi tee, certainly as in the mrs. robinson story above, a martini does not get in the way of identity play! in the past, society limited folks to having an excuse for identity play - special events where people could blow off a little steam. but these days we have all sorts of other outlets… from online worlds to changing careers every few years… we get to ID play even martini-free.
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